“Every one of us needs a purpose that’s big enough to call forth the gifts and abilities within us.”
— Richard J. Leider, Life Skills
Do you live your life “on purpose”? Do you know what that purpose is?
That unsettling question was posed to an audience of about 200 people at a workshop I recently attended.
Many of us don’t think too much about the real purpose of our lives, said the workshop’s leader, a vivacious woman named Kathleen Terry. We know what we like to do, what we’re good at, and what we have to do. But if we can discover a purpose behind all those activities, according to Terry, we can develop a richness of spirit and add meaning to our lives.
Terry gave us an actual formula for finding one’s purpose:
G + P + V = Purpose
This is how she explained the equation:
“You heed your purpose when you offer your Gifts in service to something you are Passionate about in an environment that is consistent with your core Values.”
Next, we set about drafting a Purpose Statement. To identify our Gifts, we were each given a stack of activity cards. We had to sort the activity cards into three piles, with each pile representing our preferences:
1) Activities we Love to Do
2) Activities We’re Not Sure About
3) Activities we Definitely Don’t Like to do.
From the “Love to Do” pile, we had to select our top five favorite activities, then designate one activity as the most important of all.
My Number One activity card turned out to be “Writing Things.” My four runner-up cards were “Researching Things,” “Discovering Resources,” “Analyzing Information,” and “Putting the Pieces Together.”
All my activity cards–a.k.a., my “gifts”–identified me as a writer. No big surprise there. At least it was obvious what I like to do.
But I still lacked a purpose. How am I meant to use the writing in the service of a greater purpose in life? Is that purpose merely to entertain and sell books? (That doesn’t sound very noble.) Is my purpose to inspire others to develop their own creativity? Perhaps I could volunteer as a blogger or writer on behalf of a cause I’m passionate about, such as Monarch habitat preservation.
We weren’t expected to finalize our purpose statement in the two hours of the workshop, I was relieved to learn. It turns out, sometimes it takes people years to discover their life’s purpose.
But I’m glad to be thinking in this general direction. And if you ever have a chance to take a “Finding Your Purpose” workshop, I highly recommend it.
What about you? Have you given your life’s purpose much thought? Is your writing an element of a higher purpose?